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New Year: Finding balance and new routines

The new year can bring both challenges and opportunities to explore routines that work best for your family. Below are some strategies you can use from your child’s diagnosis to post treatment.

The cancer journey brings many transitions, and each stage involves unique adjustments for families. Whether your child has recently been diagnosed, is undergoing treatment, or has completed treatment, finding balance can feel overwhelming.

Every family navigates these stages differently, and it’s okay to find your own way. What works for one family may not work for another, and that’s perfectly normal.

The period following your child’s diagnosis is often described by parents as a time of shock and uncertainty. Parents share they felt numb, on autopilot, or on an emotional rollercoaster. Life changes rapidly, and routines can feel challenging to maintain.

It’s completely understandable to focus on what feels most important and let go of tasks that don’t feel essential right now. Some normalcy can be helpful – especially for siblings – but it’s important to be gentle with yourself as you navigate these changes. It’s okay to take things one step at a time as you find what works best for your family.

Here are some strategies to consider:

  • Be flexible with routines. It’s okay if routines shift or feel out of reach. Focus on what feels manageable and let go of what doesn’t.
  • Keep communication open. Encourage family members to share their feelings and questions. Acknowledging and validating each other’s emotions can help everyone feel supported. Saying something like: “I can see you’re feeling sad, and I’m here to listen,” can help.
  • Ask for help. Extended family or friends may be able to help with other children or home duties. Sometimes, a trusted friend to listen to or help with a small task can make a big difference. The Kite Crew app can help you communicate what kind of support would be helpful and how people can assist your family. 
  • Access support. Counselling or support groups can provide a safe space to talk about emotions and experiences.
  • Maintain small moments of normalcy. When possible, familiar routines and boundaries can create a sense of stability for children and siblings.
  • If things feel overwhelming, know that it’s okay to take a step back. You don’t have to do everything at once
  • It’s okay to not have all the answers and that it’s perfectly fine to seek professional support when things become overwhelming.

Parents often describe this stage as “survival mode.” Daily life might revolve around the hospital, but there are some things you can do to ease the transition and make it more comfortable.

  • Keep track of medical updates, appointments, and treatments in one place to reduce stress. Some people download hospital-specific apps for scheduling or access to medical records.
  • Some people find it helpful to have one central place to keep friends and family updated. The Kite Crew app offers a chat function where you can create folders to share updates, upload photos, and store documents. This feature helps you keep all your information organized and easy to find. 
  • Some people find it helpful to create a WhatsApp chat group to keep friends and family informed.
  • Bring photos, blankets, or favorite toys to create a sense of familiarity in the hospital.
  • Pack items like an eye mask, earplugs, headphones, a light blanket, comfortable shoes, and snacks from home.
  • Let loved ones know whether you’d like visitors or need space to set boundaries that feel right for you. Video chats and social media can be another way to stay in touch with family and friends.
  • Catch up on books, watch movies or TV shows, or play games for a welcome distraction.
  • Small activities like sharing a story, having a meal together, or creating a quick art project can offer moments of connection and joy.
  • Try journaling or creating playlists with meaningful music as creative outlets.
  • Your instincts as a parent are incredibly valuable and speaking up or asking questions when something doesn’t feel right is a meaningful way to advocate for your child’s wellbeing.

This stage is often a time for reflection, processing, and rebuilding. Many parents describe it as finding a “new normal,” – a process that takes time and patience.

  • Adapt routines as needed. Life may not return to how it was before, and that’s okay. Focus on creating routines that feel right for your family now.
  • Consider exploring services that may support your child’s recovery and well-being, such as physical therapy or play therapy tailored to their needs, if it feels right for your family.
  • Prepare for back-to-school transitions. Work with teachers to create individualized plans and educate staff and peers about your child’s needs.
  • Spend time together as a family. Prioritize activities that help you reconnect and enjoy time together.
  • Join a support group. Connecting with other families who have shared similar experiences can provide validation and comfort. Redkite offers online support groups for parents.
  • Explore family counselling. Redkite family counselling sessions can help family members express emotions, improve communication, and navigate the challenges at any stage of the cancer experience.

Looking after yourself can help you feel more equipped to support your child and family. Self-care doesn’t need to be perfect or elaborate—small, meaningful steps can go a long way.

  • Pay attention to your needs. Eating regularly, getting rest where you can, and taking short breaks, when possible, can make a difference.
  • Be kind to yourself. Acknowledge when things are hard and allow yourself space to focus on what feels most manageable.
  • Take a moment to recharge. Whether it’s a quiet cup of tea, a short walk, or watching something uplifting, small breaks can help you feel more grounded.
  • Explore mindfulness as a family. Practices like mindfulness or meditation can help everyone find moments of calm and connection.

Counselling is available for children and teens (aged 0-18) diagnosed with cancer and their families. Redkite is here to listen and support you as you navigate the changes and emotions that cancer brings. Please reach out to learn more about how we can help.

For more information or support, contact our team of childhood cancer specialists.

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